Your mom likes to pick up fights over how certain things were supposed to be done better and differently. Then you start to think about how is she doing things and what’s wrong with that. And this is how an endless war starts. Verbally, you are never good enough for each other.Later in life, when you are in the relationship the partner keeps asking you: “Who cares how it’s done. It just needs to be done and that’s it. Why complicate?” and it’s such a long story.