Just my personal opinions and general guidelines only then…
When looking at mens chart to see what type of woman they will be attracted to look at Moon & Venus.
When looking at womens charts to see what type of man they will be attracted to look at Sun & Mars. Always look at planets in the 7th house and the sign ruling that house……
Classic Divorce aspects Uranus, conjunct, square, opposite. Uranus in 7th &5th House. All indicate issues to do with Freedom independence and shocks and surprises. Other indicators are Sun square Uranus (usually means impatience) Moon square Uranus, usually means break with mother and women
Also Mutable sign on Ascendant, Virgo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Pisces. Also Moon in Mutable sign means they are capable of loving two people at same time…..
Venus show were and how you get pleasure in your life and in what sign and house is important Venus in air signs – does not want to be possessed. Libra is tease; Gemini is flirtatious and Aquarius wants friendship Venus in fire signs – uses power of attraction. Aries direct & to point; Leo very sociable but needs to be proud of partner, vivacious/colourful; Sagittarius late for settling down, needs lot freedom Venus in water – Scorpio either very passionate or celebrate; Pisces is romantic wants to sacrifice the self to partner; Cancer will cling to love ‘to death do you part’ easily hurt & can be manipulative Venus in earth – Taurus only 1 amour at time wined/dined; Virgo can nag, have hang ups & wants to know ‘have you had a wash first’; Capricorn wants status, emotional/ financial security & is romantically rather selective
Finally, Transiting Saturn and Uranus will break relationships. Saturn WILL rebuild but wont be same. Uranus wont rebuild Also Saturn will break friendships, if aspects Saturn Venus or Moon will feel unloved, short of money and will want to withdraw.
In both sexes, Mars shows how you express your masculinity. It thus determines to some extent whether you fit the male or female stereotypes of your culture, including what sort of lover you are
There are loads of books avail, but just the basics then. Sun Moon Venus Mars Jupiter Asc Desc North Node are all very important contacts. If any of these are good ie; easy aspects, ie; conjuncts, sextile, trine. Challenges are square 90' 180' 150'
North Node is very important contact conjunct any of the personal planets, Asc, Desc. Look in Solar return chart for North Node conj Asc cos that year someone important will come into your life and affect you personally……
Ascendant signs play an important factor in attraction, chemistry, lust. The Asc is your physical body, mode of expression and the mask and persona that we all wear for protection, but not what’s going on underneath, thats your Sun sign, your values, core beliefs and pride.
Does your partners planets fall in your 5th lovers, 7th partners,marriage house or 8th (of sex) Where does your partners planets fall in your house. Main problem here is people dont actually know their time of birth which is extremely important cos otherwise you are only getting half the story…..
Synastry & divorce—– really great article, well worth reading——– The Art of Predictive Astrology: Forecasting Your Life Events
You could have the best synastry in the world, but unless you have good communications, are honest with each other about your needs, wishes and desires and ‘both’ of you want the same things………..then nothing will happen. It cannot make anyone change, or love you more. Some challenging squares, oppositions in synastry can be healthy, and may require one or both of you to grow in some way.
I am of the belief that people come in and out of our lives for a reason, either we have to teach them something or we have to learn something from them. There is Always an exchange, good or bad.
Multiple marriages may occur when the Moon or Venus in a male are in Gemini, Sagittarius, and Pisces, especially when they are in aspect to other bodies in mutual signs, and when Uranus is in aspect to Venus.
In a female chart, more than one marriage may take place if the Sun or Mars are in Gemini, Sagittarius or Pisces, especially if they are in aspect to other bodies in mutable signs, and when Venus is in aspect to Uranus.
A double‑bodied sign on the seventh cusp may indicate more than one marriage and several planets in the seventh house can sometimes indicate the number of partners.