The energy of the wild (Lilith) comes out in how you fit into groups (11th house). You might always stand out in a group as a status quo challenging figure even when you keep your mouth shut! People in groups will be able to sense a bit of something uncontrolled/uncontrollable about you, and they probably either love you for it or fear you for it. If this is true for you, it’s all about the groups you’re a part of! Find the right people – keep looking and don’t let your existing associations and friends inspire you to edit yourself into being quiet.
Basically, when people find you uncomfortable to be around, forgive them for it and move on to find people who love being around you. The right people honor instinct in themselves and others, want to build equality and want to honor nature in self and other and the world, and can deal with intense truths about life.
Peace, Tom Jacobs