I have the Sun conjunct Venus but recently found out Lilith is part of the conjunction.Sun/Venus to me means a pleasant likeable person but what’s the deal with Lilith? I have read a lot of negative things about it.How would you describe a person with Sun/Venus/Lilith?
Lilith can relate to instinct and our instinctive response to others. Your creativity and vitality (Sun) are connected to Lilith and the kinds of people you are drawn to (Venus) are, too. If you don’t do Lilith proactively you may draw others to you who bring up difficult Lilith themes – inequality, control/power dynamics, the need to be autonomous, the need to respect self and other, and other things.
Recently I launched a book on Lilith (Lilith: Healing the Wild) that tells the whole story of how I work with Lilith and put up some new pages on Lilith on my site: http://tdjacbs.com/lilith.html. Unlike many approaches it’s life-affirming and positive and has useful info about working with the energy and not just demonizing it out of hand. There’s info on aspects, signs, houses, and other things there. Peace, Tom