My wife and I share three major conjunctions in synastry: her Moon on my mars, her saturn on my moon and her North Node on my Venus. It’s been a rollercoaster ride for the last five years, with many near breakups and tearful makeups. How does these aspect affect or influence our sometimes volatile relationship?
Hello there. I think her Moon conjunct your Mars helps her (forces her?) to depend on your actions to determine her natural responses (approvals?) to things, if that makes sense. Perhaps that’s a lot of responsibility to bestow upon another person, but if you remember that you seem to have the upper hand it might help when you’re arguing/chatting. At the same time, her Saturn is probably (and unconsciuosly) trying to put a damper on YOUR natural reactions, what with her Saturn sitting atop your Moon. That doesn’t sit well with most people but if you KNOW it’s happening, you can try to relax into it. Also, the two aspects seem to be saying the same thing, doesn’t it? As for the NNode & Venus, it seems you value where she’s going in life. I guess you need to tell her all this and see if she agrees, b/c if SHE knows also, well, it must help, right? Also, check out the signs that the planets fall into, as that may help you connect them to different scenarios you have in your own life. Good luck, Frazemell…Ta! DonnaBahama.