My wife and I share three major conjunctions in synastry: her Moon on my mars, her saturn on my moon and her North Node on my Venus. It’s been a rollercoaster ride for the last five years, with many near breakups and tearful makeups. How does these aspect affect or influence our sometimes volatile relationship?
Hi-my guess is that your venus-north node connection denotes a need to learn some hard lessons from one another. Learning these lessons would naturally be difficult and frustrating at times, and the moon-mars connection points to the susceptibility of emotional outbursts from these frustrations. However, the moon-saturn connection represents feelings of duty and represents endurance in a relationship (at least that’s what most synastry literatures say), so it seems that that’s what inspires you guys to repeatedly return to each other despite the issues.