Scorpios are powerful attractors, but they hate your ego and will do a reality check on you, sometimes not in a very subtle way.
Maybe this will help you put Scorpio in a proper context: “In Scorpio, the energy harnessed for practical uses in Virgo is gathered more intensely and released to effect profound transformations. Having linked with another at a social level in Libra, one is ready for a deeper merging in Scorpio. Taurus had a simple sensuality; for its opposite sign, Scorpio, sex is the ego-death and merging of two individuals. Scorpio has a sustained emotional intensity, an interest in what is below the surface, a probing quality, an air of hidden power.” (from the report offered on this site)