He has his north node in scorpio 10 house conjunct pluto, I have my south node in 10 house, and my north node is in 4 house conjuncting pluto, what this means?
IMO, it means that his professional life and social status turn every now and then into a matter of emergency, and that he strongly believes that just by understanding this urge, you are helping him. For you it means that the burden of balancing the economy of relationship lies mainly on you – that you need to occasionally sacrifice your emotional needs and the sense of security. The level of this feeling will depend on both of your moons placements. Hope this helps.