I am taurus female, gemini moon with my lilith in scorpio, in the 7th house. What does it entail in terms of relationships?
With Lilith in Scorpio if Love doesn’t hurt, then it’s not real. If you’re intimately attracted to genuinely dark and even dangerous person, that’s Lilith in Scorpio at work. You are addicted to extremes. Nine Inch Nails have this energy. Sex is on your mind a lot, but you cannot blend it with your emotions, and the others cannot follow you easily in your idea of erotic unity. You fear opening up to your partner.
This placement comes with all the imaginable drama, with jealousy, dark passions, seduction games, and even violence. The more it’s all suppressed the more extreme can it can erupt. The worst scenarios is that you can provoke someone into being cruel and aggressive towards you, because you cannot control it and it’s completely irrational.
You will read in articles about this topic that “the native” can manipulate partners silly, but in my experience from reading charts, it’s easier for them to suppress it all and lead an ascetic life. But they are permanently kind of married with that beast inside, and it does take a flexible and understanding partner to make this placement somehow work out. Studying psychology and researching occult stuff can help here a lot.
The rumor has it that Lilith in the 7th ruins marriages, and that they can start early on hitting on the married ones. It is difficult to stay in a longer relationship with Lilith here. It makes both a woman and a man a concubine, both secretly and openly. You may get married early, and that is commonly because of your parents. If you ever trust your innermost feelings and thoughts, that can actually hurt you.
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