Hi there. I think what I see is not someone who is destined to the drudgery of singledom, but someone who is entirely focused upon the Outer World – or top half of the chart, as opposed to the bottom half, the inner world. So let’s see, for example, you could give a rat’s $%^& about how a potential mate was wounded and cried back in the 5th grade. You would rather talk about where he/she’s going with that college degree her father paid for for 8 years. Make sure you hobnob with people who are going places with their lives, even if it’s building that lemonade stand up the corner, b/c you don’t strike me as a person who would be very introspective (look for a nice sextiled Leo to complement you?). Looking at a summary of each house might help. Also, I suggest adding all the Asteroids you can to your Natal Chart, and with angles to all, see what other bodies might balance you out by falling below the horizon. Cheers!
Did you ever travel abroad where you met a very powerful person? (Based on intercepted 7th house and its ruler sun conjunct Pluto in 9th) You probably didn’t in a while, and you are a little bit drained by Saturn transiting your sun.
Thanks for your input Donna, I do think I am really sensitive and introspective though. It always takes me so long to get over relationships. It took me a year to get over a relationship of 6 months. I ask because I feel like I have had very bad luck in relationships with tons of drama. I know I was cheated on in the first two. In the first one I inadvertently met the other girl as she was leaving the guy’s apartment. He said it was his ex and denied anything happened between them (it was late at night). The second time, she was a roommate, I walked in on them while they were having sex in her bedroom. I suspect I was cheated on in the most recent one because he dumped me, wouldn’t give a concrete reason except to say that he wanted to “save my feelings”, and started going out/sleeping with someone else like a week later.
I bent over backwards for these guys and I never saw it coming. I don’t know why I keep meeting such shitty guys. Two of them were professionals, intelligent with good salaries etc. One worked on movie sets and didn’t make as much money, but that didn’t seem to make a difference. They all cheated.
Maybe I am just supposed to pack it in, forget about family and focus on my career. I don’t want to waste my time and energy to get hurt again if it’s written all over my natal chart. My dating life has just been one big train wreck and it’s extremely draining :(
I just want to know if anything in my chart points to me being cheated on and left or that I am better off being single.
Your Venus Square Neptune gives you the potential for deceipt – I guess it depends on how strong planets are for both you and your mate that might point to who deceives who (whom?). Also, your Sun Square Moon is…well, listen to what Jamie says from DarkStarAstrology: “Sun square Moon is the toughest of the natal Sun Moon aspects. The need to shine as an individual is always in conflict with the need for emotional security.” You couldn’t satisfy your need to cuddle with your need to simply be. Something like that, lol.
took me a while to find your chart and my first thoughts would be like the others, venus square neptune overidealises romance, has unrealistic expectations
“Venus conjunct Neptune Those with Venus in conjunction to Neptune in their birth chart are generally sensitive, creative, and attractive people. An impractical nature when it comes to love, money, and personal possessions is notable, even if Venus-Neptune people approach the rest of their lives in a more sensible manner. They are giving, and usually "give” more than they receive in close personal relationships, ready to make sacrifices for the one they love, generally loyal, and exceedingly kind-hearted. Sentimental and compassionate, natives with Venus conjunct Neptune are easily touched by others' kindness, music, poetry, dance, and most any art that evokes emotion. Some might say they are gullible in love, as they are inclined to forgive easily and trust that others are as good-hearted as they are. They may attract people who take advantage of their giving nature, or who elude commitment, or who are troubled or needy. As ready as they are to forgive, they are also easily hurt, and even shocked, in matters of the heart. They dislike crude, rude, and crass behavior and situations. Still, they are drawn to love relationships like moth to flame. Their imaginations and fantasy worlds are rich, and Venus-Neptune people believe that there is something out there for them, even after disappointments. There’s an ethereal or mysterious quality to them that is subtly seductive and very attractive. As loving as they are, there is an ethereal and universal quality to their love that keeps them oddly out of reach, yearning for something magical and ideal, that can make their lovers feel strangely excluded—their love almost borders on impersonal. These very creative people are often artists.
^Love is the force that shapes and sustains your life with Venus conjunct Neptune. Your romantic nature inspires you to believe in the ultimate possibilities of love, and you may have very definitive fantasies about loving. When you’re in love, your compassion knows no bounds. You may feel that you could sacrifice anything for the man you love, and sometimes do. Yearning for a soul mate, you expect the same high ideals from your partner, although you may not always find them. Your emotional boundaries can be quite flexible, which allows you to feel what others are feeling, but which can also be confusing when you’re trying to determine what’s going on with you individually. You may not always feel confident taking the initiative in love, and may spend more time fantasizing about possibilities than you spend acting on your desires. You need a love which honors your spirituality and sensitivity, and need to safeguard against falling into situations which would abuse your kindhearted care and concern *You are very romantic, idealistic, and imaginative about love. You yearn for your “true love” or “soul mate” and may become disappointed in others who never quite live up to your dream image of the perfect lover. You frequently fantasize about love and often fall in love with someone you can only love from afar. You may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, you do not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. You are attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
You tend to fool yourself where change is concerned. Thus, you are able to drift into and out of spiritual grace without even knowing it. Don’t mistake erotic dreams for the energy of tantra, and distinguish your personal desires from the teaching itself.“ http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/venusneptuneaspects.html
next ruler of 7th is stuck in 12th which has a similar feel to venus/neptune as it makes relationships hard to define. Plus moon is in detriment square to sun/pluto. this could suggest coming on too strong trying to control matters.
how sure are you of your TOB being in the last few minutes of cappi. Did you move house age 3? age 6 was a sibling born? did you change schools?
Saggimc, I moved to the UK age 2-3, Sibling born shortly after, age 3, I’ve moved a lot, age 6 moved again to another country. How do you see this from the chart? I am not 100% sure its in the last degrees of cap, my mom said my birth time was somewhat accurate.
What you wrote about Venus-Neptune hit the nail on the head, I was just saying to myself the other day that what I am looking for in a relationship doesn’t even exist in this world so I should just give up!!
I always feel taken advantage of in relationships. I feel like I am looking for a spiritual connection above all else :/ I swing between feeling that I should date as many people as I can to find something close to what I am looking for and sitting back to see what happens.
The whole relationship thing is like my Achilles heel. :/ I am going to take a break.
Hieronimus, I have traveled abroad A LOT, for school and I wanted to be away from home after that. Pretty much all of my life I feel like I have not been settled. I haven’t traveled too much in the past 5 years though, tired of traveling. I am just tired in general. I saw that Saturn was transiting my sun, no wonder I feel so spent right now. I just quit my job as I’m getting ready to go back to school, I have so much to wrap up before I move again, so much work ahead of me…….so many people to say goodbye to….gah!
You said: Saggimc, I moved to the UK age 2-3, Sibling born shortly after, age 3, I’ve moved a lot, age 6 moved again to another country. How do you see this from the chart? Now isn’t she spooky, the way she hit’s that nail so accurately, lol? Make sure you follow SaggiMC – she knows her stuff…(–: