7th house can make you pretty reasonable here thank god, but the 5th, that’s an indication of a real deep love.
Are you familiar with Mantak Chia and his THE SHAFT OF THE CLITORIS? He is a genius! Underneath is the general philosophy, but he gets very technical. Hope reading his work can help you guys channel your intense synastry.
“Don’t over-emphasize physical sex in your daily practice,as it is easy to get stuck on pleasure without experiencing higher subtle energies. Proper sexual refinement is only one small part of the vast and all-encompassing Tao. If the mixture of your chi (general vital energy), ching (sex essence) and shien (spirit) is imbalanced, it will be difficult to unite yourself and feel whole and peaceful. Cultivating sex energy is important in nourishing your spirit, but without proper diet, exercise, meditation, virtuous moral behavior and love, true cultivation is impossible. Likewise, don’t ignore sex and focus excessively on the higher spiritual centers; the roof will easily fall without a strong foundation below. Tao is the wholeness of Heaven and Earth, true harmony for man is the mid-dle way between them, found in the balanced integration of their subtle energies. XVIII
Avoid sex without love. It creates imbalances in your physical, mental and spiritual bodies and will slow your real growth.The Taoist techniques are meant to be practical, not mechanical. A woman seeks tenderness of feeling in her lovers and will resent a man who is overly compulsive or preoccupied with his mechanical mastery of esoteric love methods. Dual cultivation is impossible without the full participation of the woman, who must transform up her yin essence stored in her ovaries. Regard the woman you love as more than a powerful generator of yin energy; she is foremost a human being worthy of your full love and respect."
How to Analyse 7th Marriage House
synastry, house overlays
Learn about synastry
Vertex in signs and houses when relationships seem fated
North Node in signs and houses
Juno in signs and houses
learn composite charts, that describe THE relationship
I do hope this stimulates your appetite for astrology. Any further astrological questions please don’t hesitate to ask, this is what I’m here for…