I too share a birthday — April 1, with both my husband and my brother in law, all of us different years. Just curious to know if that creates any significance or coincidences in our horoscopes?
This synastry aligns core personalities with similar radiance and aspirations. So it’s natural that the two will support and energize each other, and understand each other’s purpose. Two Pisces will almost have one big common emotion together, but with tow Aries, there will be greater outward dynamics. The stages in your lives can be different, but it’s generally the same direction. You also know each other weaknesses like no other, but what you may fail to notice is that the same weakness may also be yours.
Thanks for sharing your story. There are many factors involved.
- His Saturn is conjunct your sun. This is decisively a negative influence on a child, especially a hypersensitive Pisces child. With the absence of emotions it puts poor communication at the base of many problems. Parent is too strict and requires discipline and structure. He needs to be extremely sensitive in order to develop a bond, which is with this aspect hard to maintain. The child can become quiet, anxious, and afraid to express itself. Saturn parent just radiates with the cold unemotional energy low self-esteem towards the child.
- At the same time you have some of the best synastry with his Venus conjunct your Jupiter. You may feel that he had so much to give you and support you, so this makes it even harder to heal.
- Your personal Moon Saturn conjunction may indicate a large role of your mom in keeping you separated from your dad.
Thanks for taking the time to respond to this query,
My father was born in Monrovia, Liberia in 1938.
I was born in St. Louis Park, Minnesota in 1975.
On the day I was born, my mother (born Oct.22,
1954 in Monrovia also)told the doc that
I had no father, which perpetuated an argument
they’d been having since before I was born.
I’ve used Astrodienst myself, but I’m too close to this issue to have clearity.
I really appreciate the insight Hieronimuss & Cass.
Hieronimuss, this is so helpful. Thank you!
I know it’s a complex situation, which is why I’ve had such a hard time seeing things clearly. My mother (depressed, manipulativr & abusive) has not been forthcoming with any clarifying explainations. I’ll tell you that my father meant the world to me when I was very young. After he remarried, our relationship abruptly vanished. It’s safe to say that at 3yrs old, I chose to bow out of competition with my stepmonster for his attention/affection.
I very much like your answers thus far. Particularly of help is this Saturn conj. Sun. Sounds about right. Can’t believ I never noticed that befor. This is very helpful in my understanding.