Since you’re probably a curious and intellectual Gemini I can wholeheartedly recommend the books by Mantak Chia. You should like any of his books. Here the way he thinks: “Woman naturally is multiorgasmic, and one of my earliest books was about cultivating female sexual energy. Woman is yin. Yang and yin cannot exist without each other, so it is better if they are in harmony. Taoist practice is to promote harmony, because when the man lets go of semen, he is finished, but the woman is ready for more. When both are in tune, they have increased vigor, improved stamina, enhanced sensation, unlimited whole-body orgasms. Ideal is the multiorgasmic couple. The sexual practices are self-healing for couples.” Other than that, I believe that lap dance can always excite the adventurous Gemini libido. Hope this helps.