I believe Ami Anne gave a perfect description of this synastry: “Some things are too intense to exist. Moon/Pluto would be a contender. The moon is your deepest heart. You show it to an animal, a child, a lover and God. When your moon touches a person’s Pluto, you join a club of a few. This is the love of a mother for her breastfeeding baby and a love of a woman for her lover, in one. The love is not of this world. The connection is not of this world. It is Healthcliff screaming for Kathy, as he runs through the moors. Moon/Pluto in synastry is once in a lifetime. It is your one and only. You will die with his name on your lips. This goes out to all you Moon/Pluto’s with love and understanding.”
Wow! That explains so much! What a beautiful assessment.. My Moon conjuncts his pluto, and his moon conjuncts my pluto! No wonder I have an ache and an angst for him. He moved away 1 month after we connected. He is going through his saturn return. His saturn, pluto. and mars are all in scorpio conjunct my moon. His moon is in libra which makes a conjunction to my pluto. My venus is exactly conjunct his mercury in aquarius, and my venus is a 1 degree orb conjunction of his mercury. I miss him as if a physical part of me has been pulled away, it dawned on me to investigate a pluto connection and sure enough! thank you for that post!
I have this with both of my parents. 1 degree orb with my dad. Partile with my Mum. They are Pluto. I am the Moon. My mother is ultra controlling. When I was a teenager I used to left messages in my diaries in case she was reading them. I never felt7 relaxed. She didnt want to dominate me but she did want to know everything about me. Sometimes I have felt that she is a little obssesed with me. She makes me feel anxious and unease. Sometimes she is like sunshine, happy and supportive. I like her around these times. Other times she is gloomy and makes me feel nervous. I end up screaming at her to leave me alone. She is a Virgo with Capricorn rising. Her pessimistic side makes me sick. I feel guilty when I get mad at her but I cant avoid it. She tries to controll everything, even when she does it in a nice way. My dad is Moon – Pluto so he is like the energy embodied. They are divorced and we never had a close relationship buy he had an idea of how her “daughter” should be and didnt hesitate to make me feel bad when I wasnt being interesting or intelligent enough.
I love my mother, but definitively this is an aspect I would avoid in a romantic relationaship. I am Uranian person and I hate the power fights. Just go mad with the controlling. WOULDNT RECOMMEND IT FOR A MARRIAGE OR PARTNERSHIP.