I believe Ami Anne gave a perfect description of this synastry: “Some things are too intense to exist. Moon/Pluto would be a contender. The moon is your deepest heart. You show it to an animal, a child, a lover and God. When your moon touches a person’s Pluto, you join a club of a few. This is the love of a mother for her breastfeeding baby and a love of a woman for her lover, in one. The love is not of this world. The connection is not of this world. It is Healthcliff screaming for Kathy, as he runs through the moors. Moon/Pluto in synastry is once in a lifetime. It is your one and only. You will die with his name on your lips. This goes out to all you Moon/Pluto’s with love and understanding.”
Wow! That explains so much! What a beautiful assessment.. My Moon conjuncts his pluto, and his moon conjuncts my pluto! No wonder I have an ache and an angst for him. He moved away 1 month after we connected. He is going through his saturn return. His saturn, pluto. and mars are all in scorpio conjunct my moon. His moon is in libra which makes a conjunction to my pluto. My venus is exactly conjunct his mercury in aquarius, and my venus is a 1 degree orb conjunction of his mercury. I miss him as if a physical part of me has been pulled away, it dawned on me to investigate a pluto connection and sure enough! thank you for that post!