Have a strong emotional integrity. If you flip-flop and if you are too mental and talk a lot, he will will probably not like that. Give him emotional space as well as the opportunity to assist you in your life, and his respect for you will grow into a solid feeling of love. Cancer men are naturally nurturing and caring. He takes relationships and his partner seriously, so it may take a little while for you to really understand what he feels about you, but he will at some point openly share his feelings about you. Once he starts to pick up on your moods, you guys are starting to blend. It’s very important to know that when he cares about someone, he can become easily be offended by them. So be careful and clarify all misunderstandings promptly and above all, Let Love Rule! And consider our synastry chart to see what the future with your Crabby holds.
Here some suggestions on how to get and keep a Cancer man…
Be interested in tradition
Respect his family
Respect his belief system
Be a great cook
Desire a family
Love and want kids
Be interested in building a stable home
Resemble his mother (in mind, body, and/or spirit)
Be sincere and honest
Be physically and emotionally affectionate
Be secure and stable
Allow him moments of privacy
Be strong yet gentle
Make him feel safe
Find pleasure in slow, romantic lovemaking
Show your appreciation for him
Be a bit artistic and creative
Listen to him
When you want to seduce Cancer, you will have to influence his feelings. To do so, you will first have to see through his protective shell… Cancer very often clings to the past and past experiences.
Seduce Cancer by supporting his dreams and accept his past. You will not seduce Cancer when you try to delve into his past! You should support his talents and capabilities. Yes, Cancer loves cookery. Invite your Cancer target for an exquisite dinner and try to be a good cook yourself. When you want to seduce Cancer, you will have to keep in mind that his heart is through his stomach!
The surroundings are important to Cancer, don’t criticize him too much and never ever neglect him. If you want to seduce Cancer, make it cozy. Dance cheek to cheek. Get a romantic video to watch at home. Source(s): I know some of these tips are for men cancers but some are so true also for me.
I am a libarian and thee is this male patron that come to the library, i found out his cancer, we smile at each other. how do i know if he likes me because i realy like him
IM A GEMINI AN MY BOYFRIEND IS A CANCER AND WE HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WE DONT ARGUE BUT HE GOSE INTO HIS SHELL SOMETIMES SO GETTING ANSWERS FROM HIM IS LIKE PULLING TEETH BUT A CANCER MAN HE LOVES AFFECTION AND HE LOVES FOR YOU TO BE ABEL TO TREAT HIM LIKE A REAL MAN BUT HIS BEAUTIFUL SIDE IS WHEN HES OPEN WITH YOU ABOUT EVERYTHING EVEN HIS PAST HE HOLDS EVERYTHING IN UNTIL HE FEELS LIKE ITS THE RIGHT TIME JUST GIVE HIM TIME AND SPACE BECAUSETHEYRE REALLY CRABS
I am also a gemini woman and Im dating a cancer male. I really really love this relationship. He is very affectionate, giving and sweet. However sometimes he does go into his shell so giving him his space is very important. He is my best friend. I will be honest it does take to some time for him to come out his shell and bare all of his feelings but once he does he will be open and compassionate. Communication can be a challenge but once communication barriers are broke…the relationship will be a great balance. Just have patience and Good luck :)
Here some good observations:
“"The Cancerian male is raised in a mother-dominated atmosphere. He realizes that women are strong and powerful, and adopts his mother’s mannerisms and attitudes. He may either be too emotionally close to his mother – a momma’s boy – or really dislike her and later make the women in his life pay the dues for his mother hatred. In any event, he usually prefers the company of women; they are easier for him to talk with, they are more familiar. He enters relationships playing the role of Big Daddy or Little Boy.
Whichever role he begins with, once the relationship is established, it is not surprising to see the Cancerian male playing Little Boy, for he thinks this will get him what he wants. He, too, is looking for emotional fulfillment and affection, but usually something akin to ‘mother love’ is more important than a sexual relationship. Sometimes he establishes sexual relationships outside his marriage; he doesn’t want one with his wife since she’s playing the role of mother for him.“ (Betty Lundsted in Astrological Insights into Personality)
“Be sympathetic with the Cancer man – but don’t spoil him! He is more emotional than the average man; he is sensitive to his surroundings and to your moods. And he has plenty of moods of his own, too. It is said that most Cancer men love the home and good food. but the truth of the matter, most likely, is that he appreciates homemaking efforts, including the talents that make up a skillful chef. He does not require a palace or a queen, but he insists upon undivided loyalty. With this insistence, there is a lurking suspicion that all could not be as good as it looks; he feels someone, somewhere, is doing something he or she should not be doing. This makes him unhappy!
This is not the easiest man to love. He is an idealist; he expects to make mistakes himself but he is astonished when a loved one slips in any manner. His standards are high; he is patriotic, loyal; he doesn’t mind fighting with members of his own family. He enjoys a good family quarrel: it clears the air! But let an outsider say something about a person he loves – then he fights. He is a moody man and the best hint is this: recognize that his moods are expressions, nuances of his feelings, character, hopes, dreams. Don’t try to pull him out of his thoughts.
His ambitions are based on ideas. He realizes that fulfillment of dreams depends upon his ability to outmaneuver or outthink competitors. once this man declares his love for you, he is apt to be pretty serious about it. Avoid sniping at him. Keep your head – give and take – don’t ask for special favors or privileges. This man appreciates honesty and frankness; he cannot tolerate whining. Remember, he is the one who seeks sympathy – to ask him to give you too much is to make him think that maybe he’s with the wrong woman! This man appreciates women and the finer things in life. The better he has it, the more discriminating he becomes. He fears ridicule, and the quickest way to lose him is to laugh at him. (by Syndney Omarr from Sydney Omarr’s Astrology, Love, Sex, and You )