My mars counjunct her venus in my 12th house


I met Tam at church about a year ago, and it was love at first sight for me. As luck would have it, she became fast friends with my now estranged wife. I was confused by this instant attraction until I found out her age and birthday. Turns out, her Venus conjunct my Mars in Aries by less than two degrees in my 12th house…..my Venus in Gemini also conjunct her Sun.

We randomly bump into each other around town and the interaction is warm friendly, however, because of her friendship with my soon to be ex, I would never act on this yearning that I have for her. In fact, I’m not even sure if she’s affected as I am.

Your thoughts, please.


This is classic 12th house synastry. It is the house of hidden, clandestine affairs. That’s why while the attraction is real, instantaneous and strong (Aries Mars-Venus) at least from your side, there is an element of secrecy and taboo attached to it, if not in real life at least in your mind. There is always a sense of something being out of conscious reach regarding things that happen in the 12th house. Whether she is affected by this in the same way or not depends on a lot of factors in her chart but most specifically where this Aries conjunction falls in her chart.

Answered 10 months ago

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