Fortunately you have this opposition in mutable signs so you can be more flexible, and air and fire burn away the anger pretty fast. Here a nice summary:
Contacts between the Sun and Mars are frequently found in marriages because it is one of strong physical attraction and the blend is productive of much “heat.” The desire nature is definitely stimulated. This comparative combination produces a conflict of will and ego, which can result in power struggles and fights for supremacy in the relationship. This is not a good romantic indicator because ego and willfulness will be continuously at odds. The key to successfully working with this aspect is psychological maturity. Because it is impossible to eliminate the competition for dominance imposed here, it is necessary for both to respect the other’s free will.
It doesn’t always have to end in a fight.Can you think of some other way to release tension??
How to approach Synastry Go to astro.com and get FREE charts and synastry bi wheel, found in extended chart selection. Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 45% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs. Please also include, vertex, juno and POF (part of fortune).
when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the pdf file, above left of chart look for view additional tables (PDF) This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the ASPECT GRID THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AS IT SEEMS TO SHOW MORE ASPECTS THAN IS VISIBLE ON THE BI WHEEL…
problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ – top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard.
Paste (Ctrl V) into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press ‘direct link’ and past link into thread…. all done :)
How to Analyse 7th Marriage House
synastry, house overlays
Learn about synastry
Vertex in signs and houses when relationships seem fated
North Node in signs and houses
Juno in signs and houses
learn composite charts, that describe THE relationship
I do hope this wets your appetite for astrology. Any further astrological questions please don’t hesitate to ask, this is what I’m here for…