It’s really different since you have different core personalities. If you are serious about staying in this relationship, you need to envision the future of it and what kind of a personal progress you can make. If you feel it’s blocking you, it will be hard to change, unless you tremendously improve your communication, and demonstrate the need for more openness. I would recommend to do a chart compatibility analysis, it does help. The best one is at Thefutureminders.com Once you sign up, log in and you will see “Astro Reports” in the top right corner. Click on that. Then at the top of the page click on “Free Personalized reports.” Then select the Compatibility and Romance report and fill out your birth data and the data of somebody else. It’s amazing, it tells you what aspects you have in common with someone. If you find some really amazing and surprising results, share it with us!
Maybe this post can help you see her point of view:
I am a Scorp and I naturally attract Taurus men. There is always a lot of sexual chemistry from the start. Just totally be your complicated intense self and he will be fascinated by you. Really. Just be you. Now at the same time that sexual chemistry can get too intense and the passion can get in the way of building a real relationship. You have to be careful to be respectful and honest. While at first, Taurus may be intrigued by your sense of mystery and secretiveness, eventually he may think you are keeping things from him and he does not like this. They may be so attracted to you that they get very possessive and jealous at the slightest attentions or mentions of other men. Scorpio does not like to be controlled or protected too much and Taurus can start feeling insecure. Scorpio women love Taurus for being so grounded and sensual. Scorpio women go really far to please Taurus sexually because they know how much Taurus appreciates it. Taurus loves to be massaged, caressed, and touched a lot. They love a woman who will cook for them, and who gives them a lot of compliments. They want to be everything to you, they want to be completely adored and the nicer you are to them, the more they will love you and be faithful. You have to be careful to not hurt their feelings because they may seem strong and stubborn, which they are; they are also tender, kind, loving and sensitive. They will accept you for who you are; which is such a gift and rarity for a Scorpio woman. It is worth it. Just be careful with their feelings because they can break up with you for good if you hurt them too much.
No it’s not. Planets have the energy, the Nodes are way-showers and more metaphysical. As your soul travels, the Nodes show the path. The South Node shows where you’re coming from, the North Node where you’re going. You’re moving from a comfort zone to a new territory. It speaks to the overall progress of your soul. It doesn’t hold the promise of anything. Actually if you have this synastry with someone, you’re probably going the opposite directions, and you can assists each other but not get physically or even emotionally involved with that. That’s where the concept of the karmic dimension of a relationship was developed.
I can totally understand where you;re coming from with this question because your North Node in Scorpio is conjunct Uranus in your chart, and Uranus is the most important planet in your chart, the ruler of you Ascendant. So you feel its significance much more and it gives you the unusual courage to step outside of yourself. It blends with your Uranus energies so if you have it in synastry, it’s more Uranus who will raise the excitement about the partner.
Hope this makes sense.
Does this apply to Scorpio North Node and Taurus North Node couple?
Thanks, Hieronimuss. So, if I have Scorpio NN and he has Taurus NN, we shouldn’t get physically or emotionally involved with each other? Are opposite North Nodes a sign of incompatibility in a relationship given that we’d be moving towards different life paths? Would you say it better to have the same North Nodes in a compatibility chart?