Her Venus close to your ascendant shows that you are very attracted to how she looks. Her Sun close to your ascendant will mean that you also take her personality very seriously and that she can have a great influence on you. Here you synastry chart (without the correct birth hour which you didn’t indicate):
It’s a blast. in any way :) I have it and this busy ascendant in synastry feels like eternal glue stuff between us.
lucky you, how about some charts or syn bi wheel?
It’s important to see the way you relate to your possible partners in your own chart before looking in the synastry chart. You seem to build your relationship rationally and slowly, but it looks like the relationship to your mother and your upbringing possibly distorted you perception of femininity (Neptune square Moon). Your mother was either over-idealized or rejected as a feminine role model. You did not get a clear sense of who you were as a child and, as a result, may set impossibly high standards for yourself. She may also have strong ties to religion. You may regard feminine energies as splurge and deceptive – not grounding and nourishing at all. For a healthy relationship it is necessary to communicate with your partner a lot and see her in a new light outside of possible emotional patterning. Just some thoughts I wanted to share. Best!
Luna’s advice that’s above sounds pretty good to me, as I myself have a natal Moon Square Neptune. Mumsy, who’s still alive, was always seen as either a goddess or the gremlin from hell. Now that I’m married and we all live together, my husband’s relationship with her fortunately takes me out of that mindset, and into a more realistic view of her (lucky for her, lol). But make sure you see this potential mate at her sloppiest, ugliest and dirtiest modes, Hieronimuss. That way you can see if she still floats your boat.