What can I learn from my parents synastry?


Blue is my Pisces mum and red my Sagittarius dad. Here their chart: Image Alt Text

over 5 years ago saggimc said:

we need to see your natal chart and poss syn with mother and then father??


Go to astro.com and get FREE charts and synastry bi wheel, found in extended chart selection. Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 45% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs. Please also include, vertex, juno and POF (part of fortune).

when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the pdf file, above left of chart look for view additional tables (PDF) This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the ASPECT GRID THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AS IT SEEMS TO SHOW MORE ASPECTS THAN IS VISIBLE ON THE BI WHEEL…

problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ – top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard.

Paste (Ctrl V) into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press ‘direct link’ and past link into thread…. all done :)

I see mars is conjunct moon/uranus and I bet this led to some lively exchanges. mercury conj jupiter should make for good communications and philsophical discussions.

So, suns are in square signs, so core beliefs are at odds. Moons are quincunx signs aries and scorpio Aries is very straightforward, what you see is what you get, calls a spade a shovel and is very direct and to the point, rather impatient and impulsive, soon to flare up soon to flare doesn’t hold grudges. Very good at starting things, motivating people and starting projects but not good at finishing them, not very good with money either except spending it. Aries belongs to a group of 3signs which values it freedom and independence very highly. Sagittarius and Aquarius other two.

Now Scorpio, definitely what you see is not what you get, very secretive, private and plays its cards close to its chest. Extremely analytical, great for research and ferreting things out but 100% wants control and will use any tactic to get it including psychological mind games and emotional manipulation. Scorpio will never understand why if you are in a committed relationship, would you want freedom and independence! Definitely won’t appreciate you blurting things out and telling everyone their business. Although its easy to see why these people get together, because they are both highly sexed signs. In fact Aries is joint second place with

mars is quincunx saturn. so if this was a natal chart aspect, it would suggest you suffering in relationships and not understand why.There is something about taking action (mars) that is at odds with saturn. But I think with the quincunx there is less conscious awareness of these two energies and how they act, that’s why their lack of understand comes in. They act in a certain way and dont' understand why they ‘get back’ the reactions that they do, if that makes sense?

I think with the mainstream, hard aspects there IS more conscious awareness of the energies and how the act and ‘have to’ blend but with the quincunx it seems like it’s harder to see/recognise and blend.

For you to learn something from their synastry you would need to do your own synastry bi wheel to make comparisons.

Answered over 5 years ago
saggimc 3484
from United Kingdom


Here a comment by Anthony from Seven Stars Astrology (from my fb)

Dad’s Venus with Mom’s Moon. Venus and Moon in the same sign was one of the best signs of strong bond mentioned by Masha'allah. Their Suns and their Moons are both on the same path together (i.e. ruled by the same planets), which also shows mutual sympathy. Close Venus square in signs sympathetic by seeing each other (i.e. antiscia). Could be more harmony between the Suns and Moons but at least they both have natal Sun-Moon trines so there is an individual sense of relationship harmony with both. But watch out dad, mom’s Mars is with your Moon, so some heavy drama may ensue on those activations. Her Jupiter with his Sun and Mercury, and his Jupiter trine to her Sun and Moon strike me as particularly positive configurations for encouraging the best from each other. Dad seems a little less stable in relationships overall and more likely to wander off or fall in and out of love.

I’ve learned a lot from my parents' charts and synastry. My mom has Aries Sun, Aqua Moon and my dad has Aries Moon, Aqua Sun. I really wish I had a birth time for my dad but he was born in a small town in Italy in the 1940’s and no one seemed to care for exact times.

Answered over 5 years ago
hieronimuss <3 10098
from United States


North Node conjunct Saturn between charts: This bond creates a very long lasting relationship that has roots far into the future. Saturn acts as an anchor that helps tie down the union. Especially helpful if there are very strong spiritual and karmic aspects occurring as well. Saturn provides guidelines and structure to help the partnership grow into a committed and long term endeavor. Usually helps the north node person plan and project their dreams and goals for the future and can play a pivotal role in success towards reaching that.

Answered over 5 years ago
hieronimuss 4853
from United States

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