Since the South Node is meant to indicate where we have come from and the North Node where we need to be heading, having Venus conjunct the S Node hints that we have come from a place of vanity or self pampering. It also can indicate a life of beauty or charisma. We need to take this charisma and charm which we inherently possess and put it to service in the direction of the North Node. In your case the North Node is in the first house in Libra. This could indicate something to do with the area of relationships.
You have a continual yearning to be popular, engaging and truly loving with those you encounter in your daily routine. But you’re not always willing to go out of your way to please others, even though you hope that others will put themselves out for you. As such, you may get a reputation for being unreliable or fickle, and that kind of reputation is probably deserved. Remember that successful relationships require give-and- take from both parties. Merely being flirtatious will not offer others sufficient reason to want to build a more permanent relationship.
A woman I know with Venus conjunct the south node has in spite of many difficulties in this life a beautiful singing voice.
South Node is our comfort zone, what’s familiar to us. So have venus conjunct suggests you get pleasure connected to the sign and house placements.
“The North Node deals with aspirations/deep longings, also with incoming overwhelming experiences which might bring happiness, although you may be feeling you never really get close to it, and that gives insatiable desires. It can be a very unstable placement as there is a feeling of emptiness which constantly needs to be filled. The North Node has similarities with mercury: smooth, freshness (of mind) openminded-ness, adaptability and chameleon-characteristics. Therefore the North Node in mercury’s signs of dignity and exaltation (gemini/virgo/aquarius and corresponding houses 3/6/11) fits well and is favourable, also a benefic (venus/jupiter) conjunct one of the nodes is favourable (especially when the planet is Unafflicted). The North Node deals with new, fresh and unexpected experiences, new, uncovered territory and fascinations and with a smart and shrewd way of adjusting to new circumstances. There always seem outward ‘objects’ on which this fascination is directed to. (A planet on) the north node is like boiling lava which constantly wants to erupt out of it, so its results are unusual and disruptive, but fresh wind and a strong contact to the ‘mainstream’ but simultaneously Unable NOT challenging it.
The South Node deals with detachment from aspirations, it’s the basic fundament of our psychology and most natural behaviour. (It’s not surprising that you guess someone’s south node sign instead of their sun sign.) Whereas the north node has difficulty finding the essence of things he is chasing after, the south node knows it, but it gives an aphetic feeling of there is nothing more in life to discover. The south node is not worse than the North Node, it even shows extraordinary talents and penetrating deep and clear insight/perception (especially with conjunctions on it) but usually there are no rewards coming here as long focussing on it as the north node is not incorporated. It’s like entrapment in your circumstances and fate, like feeling stuck in a swamp. South node is very much an introspective energy, difficult to be changed by outward circumstances (because of his clear and solid inner perception). Sun conjunct south node for example indicates some special individual talents and a strong will but also arrogance and a strong isolation from others and therefore not seeing others talents. Venus conjunct south node means natural tactfulness but easily stuck in harmony and smothering love, and there’s a basic feel of what love means.
“North Node in Aries – South Node in Libra Avoid to be overly attached how well you relate to others. You are naturally inclined to be diplomatic and keep relationships in peace. You need to be in your energy, simply trust your instincts and pushing yourself. Don’t avoid conflict when it’s necessary. Compete in games.
Venus conjunct South Node: narcistic, relationship/love-sick, unreal and smooth-talking, inclined to laziness, naturally good tact, charm, civilized and ingrained sense of beauty.“ http://www.astrology-life.webs.com/#NodesinSigns